Marco@羽林衛

來賓正在分享最近與孩子互動的遊戲…「凡事往好處想」的遊戲…                                           
                                                                                                    
 媽媽問孩子：「今天上學發現，口袋裡的十元不見了，請往好處想… 」                                     
 孩子回答：「還好不見的不是一百元…」                                                                
 父親回答：「撿到的人一定很高興…」                                                                  
                                                                                                    
 媽媽問孩子：「今天上學後剛始下起大雨，請往好處想…」                                                
                                                                                                    
 孩子回答：「還好舅舅家住的近，可以幫我送傘…」                                                      
                                                                                                    
 媽媽問孩子：「很用功的準備段考後，成績非常的不理想，請往好處想 …」                                 
 孩子回答：「還好不是聯考…」                                                                        
                                                                                                    
 一邊聽著廣播一邊覺得這個遊戲很有趣，凡事往好處想，                                                 
 整個心情就變的不一樣了，還記得有個故事，                                                           
 一個女孩遺失了一支心愛的手錶，                                                                     
 一直悶悶不樂，茶不思、飯不想，甚至因此而生病了。                                                   
                                                                                                    
 神父來探病時問她：                                                                                 
 「如果有一天你不小心掉了十萬塊錢，你會不會再大意遺失另外二十萬呢！」                               
                                                                                                    
 女孩回答：「當然不會。」                                                                           
                                                                                                    
 神父又說：                                                                                         
 「 那你為何要讓自己在掉了一支手錶之後，                                                            
 又丟掉了兩個禮拜的快樂!                                                                            
 甚至還陪上了兩個禮拜的健康呢！」                                                                   
                                                                                                    
 女孩如大夢初醒般地跳下床來。                                                                       
 說： 「對！！我拒絕再損失下去， 從現在開始我要想辦法，再賺回一支手錶。」                           
                                                                                                    
 人生嘛！！                                                                                         
 本來就是有輸有贏，更是有挑戰性的，輸了又何妨。                                                     
 只要真真切切地為自己而活，                                                                         
 這才叫做真正的《生命》。                                                                           
 有些人就是因為不肯接受事實重新開始以致越輸越多，                                                   
 終至不可收拾。                                                                                     
 如果已輸了，                                                                                       
 請記得我們打麻將輸的時候常說的一句話「少輸為贏」。                                                 
  為自己訂製一個停損點吧！                                                                          
                                                                                                    
 正向思考我們不會怨天尤人                                                                           
 正向思考我們不會心情鬱悶                                                                           
 正向思考我們不會一厥不振                                                                           
 正向思考我們不會苦無出路                                                                           
 正向思考我們不會離樂得苦                                                                           
                                                                                                    
 正向思考會為我們帶來一個停損點